At my core, my mission is to support you in liberating your most Undeniable Expression and most Potent Leadership, so you can make the impact you know you are here to make.
We’ve all heard the “you’re being selfish if you keep your gifts to yourself!” - I’ve said it, and heard it a million times myself. The concept of how important it is that we share our gifts, and serve others from the standpoint of someone else NEEDS to hear what we have to share is 100% important and real.
And… I felt inspired to share a different perspective today about visibility.
Now more than ever it’s time to give yourself permission to step out of the box you've been put in for so long (by yourself, by others, by society).
Living Richly, in my humble opinion, is where it’s at. It’s a beautifully simple experience of feeling totally satisfied (while continuously committed to growth). Where you feel proud and accomplished, creatively expressed, totally connected, nourished and alive.
And yet there’s a million and one reasons why you may not be Living Richly right now, including four sneaky excuses I so commonly see holding business women back.
I mention success a lot in my marketing: I help people experience success, expand in their success, have soulful success, I work with successful women.
but, what is success… really?
And how often do you explore your definition of success?
I started to notice a theme come up around "putting ourselves out there." Not feeling good/smart/capable/clear/experienced enough is something that influences the thoughts we think and the actions we take ALL the time in every area of our lives, and certainly in our business.
One of the thought forms this may have shown up as for you is "I don't want to contribute to the all noise."
If you've been scared or resistant of sharing (your thoughts, ideas, work, self) for fear of contributing to all the “noise” out there, here's what I want you to know.
(aka: how I went from being a multi 6-figure success coach to a "broke" Living Richly coach) I was scared to tell you this, but now I just have to!
Up until recently, the last 6 months had felt like my world was flipped upside down. From an outside perspective, it probably didn’t look like much had changed, but internally I felt so confused!
You see, late last year I was guided to NOT launch the one program that was the core of my business. I had been running the Sexified Success Circle (SSC) for the last 4 years, and another version of it for the 2 years before that. It was my passion and something that my heart had guided me to so strongly, so long ago. (Though, looking back now, I can admit that it was starting to feel pretty comfortable.)
“I have dreams (nightmares really) where I lose everything. My home, my business, my favorite things - all are being taken away from me.” “I have enough money right now for everything I need, but I’m constantly worried that I won’t in the future.”
“I’m scared to have my sweet new Porsche in my driveway because I think kids are going to come key it.”
“I’ve wanted _______ for years but haven’t let myself get one just in case that little bit of money is needed for something else.”
“I just got a gorgeous upgraded wedding ring for my anniversary, and I don’t even feel comfortable celebrating it with my friends because I’m scared they will feel uncomfortable.”
All of these people have enough money, many would even consider themselves financially well off or rich. They have the things they desired (or the means to have them), and yet they can’t seem to enjoy it. It’s there but they aren’t fully receiving it.
How many times have you felt like you lost your sense of “why”, the real reason you’re in business? You know, that white-hot-burning desire to jump out of bed in the morning and move forward with your passion? Leaving you feeling like your business and making money is “hard,” and certainly not joyful?
This is SO common.
Are you taking on more responsibility for your clients than you should?
Feeling anxious in your business?
This could be why.
